Dating sites in western countries have gained remarkable popularity, dating sites are prevailing in certain areas based on locality, ethnicity etc. In India they are yet to make a visible debut. More peoples are using here orkut and facebook like social engines. despite orkut and facebook are large database of peoples and can be used as tool for getting a date they remain primarily a social networking sites and places several restrictions on usage. They do not allow unlimited number of profiles visits or chatting with unknown person. Search features in a dating site is also that makes considerable difference. Below is the quick listing and reviews of  some popular dating sites that can be useful for indians.

Adult friend finder – this is a huge member site, you have free and paid membership. With free membership you can do anything other than knowing that there are lots of girls around you. Most of them are hookers and some are normal woman. They have online chatting option but that doesnt seems to work.

Craiglist - This is a personal ads service here people can place there personal advertisement for free. Ads posted their immediately starts appearing in Google and stays for 45 days in craiglist. This is really is good place to make your effort just that after ads expires you must renew them.

Flirt.com – This is another popular site. Search and browsing features are excellent you can filter results with age, distance etc there are many criteria for searching partners. For some reasons they online chatting do not work properly. Actually they allow chat windows to open but don’t have any way to buzz other side for the new chat notifications so if the person on the other side not browsing flirt.com he wouldn’t know about your chat message same applies to you. After sending chat ping you must not close chat window rather keep eye on it.

Cupid.com – This is same software that Flirt.com is using (EasyDate Plc). all features are same and pricing are also. You can try it for one month you will get the chance to send chat pings to members. But this isnt so easy for the same reason with the previous site that members are difficult to know pings. Another thing is total members is very  limited but that can also gives you chance to maintain visibility of your profile.

Zooks - This is another popular but not known to many. this seems less commercial and dont want to fool around guys. They allow sending message for free.

In the beginning when for the first time man found himself separate from rest of existence it later it was also realized that root cause of all suffering and limiting his actions are thought that created separation. Then started series of techniques to suppress thought, today we know them as meditation of different kinds. All those methods were no help to mankind and failed miserably. Behind all unsuccessful attempts to control thought was the fact that thought cannot end itself. Thought is a self protecting mechanism that is foreign to the body and thrives on it. Can fire burn itself?  can water wet itself?  you eyes see itself? so there is no chance that thought can kill itself and the one who is trying to suppress those thought is another thought.

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There is no concrete boundary that we can define for our individual existence. If brain is the seat of your existence then it needs heart and veins all over the body for its functioning, heart needs carbohydrate from combustion of food in stomach, to get food you need the entire body structure with skeleton and mussels that acquires food from external source. Skin is required to protect the body from harsh environment now there we stop. From the knowledge give by culture we say that this whole body and conscious is you and rest everything is external. But body cannot function without air, water and rest of living/dead out there  so there is no concrete line one can draw that separates you from others.

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All sensations are the pair for stimuli and response. Anything that you say or experience through thought is external. For example seeing a beautiful woman hardening of penis is the only relevant response and thinking of love, saying beautiful to her, fantasizing about love making, writing poems on her beauty or painting etc all are irreverent and come from external knowledge. Similar on the line seeing and smelling any food there will be chemical changes in stomach and tendency to consume it anything other than that like regarding it has good or bad is external.

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In past several personalities that went through some form of psychological or psychical mutation and found themselves into entirely new way of living and seeing life accepted that there is no way one can use knowledge or realization from any other source and solve their problem. Because all you do to solve them becomes part of thought which is dead. This thought structure which is a like a enemy in the battle field that caches all armors targeted at him and turn into more deadly one then directs it back to you. That is why they kept repeating that there is nothing you do anything that you do only adds momentum to it.

There was a time when peoples believed on primitive forms of healing, religions and pope like god-man as a remedy for their physical suffering or diseases. To what extent it manage to cure problem is not certain or a only thrived on the hope of getting cured. In my opinion what today’s medical practitioners do isn’t much different from ancient pontiff used to practice. They create new diseases and try to cure them, identification of new dysfunction has been accelerated by different kinds of phobias, psyche generated problems, which otherwise without a way to know their existence in reality. Some madman in laboratories tutoring mute animal puke off one theory and lots of followers try to relate this theory in real world. Body when subjected to new conditions rejects or takes time to adjust with that it can also show some form of abnormality,  but there comes roles of these medical practitioners using their mind and create a  new disease out of it. All that is to make money out of it he would say that he is doing for the welfare of human society but there is undercurrent conscious operating him to do that for his own welfare.

My point is clear when you notice that with the advancement of medical science newer and more complex disease and physical dysfunction are born and come into realization most of which are questionable. If you can really see with the spread of health consciousness among peoples more and more peoples are visiting their doors if that medical science is correct there should be reduction in disease.

I am not completely rejecting practice of medical science or futility of research in this direction, but only pointing out that there is limit they can do to solve your problems. A strong belief on doctors isn’t different from what was in times of religions. Today most of research work and clinical surgeries are oriented towards commercialization so any solution suggested to you by a doctor will be a product of vendor wanting to sell their product, doctor interested in making money through referrals etc. Below are some superstitions that medical practitioners are spreading;

Ideation of allergy – When I was kid I suffered by extreme coughing and asthma like problem. My parents visited several doctors one by one they added new causes of allergy and told me to avoid them. That didn’t help me at all before their telling about certain concept of allergy I was not knowing a damn thing about this whole business of allergy and through my remembrance that non of those factors actually invoked coughing that attack me. What cause an asthma attack was not known to me sometimes I was perfectly okay with all the presence of allergic items while other times in perfect environment it used to haunt me.

Overweight gang – While more and more peoples are becoming overweight they visit health experts seeking solution to their misery, here the distinction between a doctor and a perfectly money oriented money minded individual that thrives on the gullibility of peoples, is in the gray zone. Weight-lose club mushrooming and telling you what to eat, how to eat and how to walk. I dont regard it absolute rubbish as many peoples are interested in having social life there apart from hope of losing weight. They give guarantee for 4 kg in a month which can be achieved by a daily morning walk. The identification of above problem starts by ignoring the fact of today’s life style and aging of the body no person can remain same for whole of his life, but by culture and cinemas directs all our wants.

Sugarless sugar – more peoples are suffering from diabetes and doctors announced in the beginning that its a hereditary problem so if parents are in it descendants will also go so people rush to their doors. They check sugar level and say its alarming and now you should take sugarless sugar. What a joke Sugar is?  Sugar its a complex molecule with the special arrangement of atoms that gives sweetness to it. A person who is using sugar in hot beverages used to put 2 – 3 spoons now this person would take single tiny sugar free tablet that feels like mix of sugar with some chalk powder. So this way there is 100 times difference in intake of sugar that brings sugar level down. Wonder that supplier who makes sugar free sugar is selling same sugar with 50 times more price.

ophthalmology dooms - This is something like cutting-off legs of a physically fit person and giving him support to walk they timely device new support and tell him with arrogance look how useful things we are making for you ….what good is that? Taking a person’s cataract to a level of near blindness and give him spectacles and feel proud. While being a patience of cataract since childhood I am well aware that ophthalmologist who operates on much lesser number of patients needs them to keep coming. I started out with small number an then slowly grown to 2.5 D. I realized that where I am doing, I regularly visit doctors and he is stepping my natural vision towards blindness, I stopped any further visits, and maintained my distance from the objects while reading or staring computer screen since then my number was maintained to this constant level, and the folks who started using glasses at my age reached to 5 or 8 D.

You know the history of a ophthalmologist called William baits he was the first one that rejected the whole business of curing blurred vision through glasses. He maintained use of glass would only add to this problem rather there is natural way of healing of eyes by exposing it to good natural light and giving it proper rest. This person was attacked by ophthalmologist all over the world that what he is proposing is nonsense why? because non of those physician are interested in curing your eye rather how to keep feeding from your gullibility. Unfortunately those peoples did so strong lobbying against William baits that today no one talk of him or his alternative way of eye care.